Are You a Hoarder?
Hoarding is such a fascinating topic that it’s made its way into cable TV reality shows, mainstream dramas, talk shows and sitcoms. As stated at the beginning of every A&E Hoarders episode, “Compulsive Hoarding is a mental disorder marked by an obsessive need to acquire and keep things, even if the items are worthless, hazardous or unsanitary.”Are You a Hoarder? Click To Tweet
Some of the shows focus on the sudden, traumatic, and usually forced, cleanup process triggered by a legal or health crisis. Others focus more on the psychology behind hoarding and what it’s like to live as a hoarder. Generally speaking, it takes both a professional organizer and a mental health care professional, if not an even more extensive support team, to create a change in a hoarder’s behavior. Hoarding has long, and erroneously, been considered a subset of OCD. In 2014 it was finally listed in the DSM-V revision as its own diagnosis: Compulsive Hoarding.
For professional organizers these shows are practically required viewing, at least occasionally, for awareness sake. However, I find them almost unbearably sad to watch. One unusually insightful hoarder, who surveyed her cluttered home with the help of a mental health care professional, articulated what I was feeling: “You are looking at my unresolved pain.” Indeed.
What you should know about me, since you are reading this post, is that I do not, and am not qualified to, work with hoarders. The more severe the case, the more specialized the training and help that is required, by both organizer and mental health care professional. Television loves to portray extremes, and my clients are way too average to be of interest. Even the ones who fear that they are hoarders usually turn out not to be. Not really.
That said, here’s what else I’d like you to know about hoarding:
1. There is help available. Are you wondering if you are, or someone you care about is, a hoarder? The Institute for Challenging Disorganization (ICD) offers resources and help. There are a lot more resources available to hoarders than when I originally wrote this piece in 2010…just Google “hoard*” (which covers hoard, hoarded, hoarders, and hoarding) + your location to see what other resources might be available to you.
2. Please DO refer friends and family to me, or to another professional organizer, if you suspect that they are hoarders. You can search the NAPO website (National Association of Professional Organizers) by zip code and specialty to find a qualified organizer near you. We can help you figure it out and get help. Keep in mind that most hoarders do not want help, and there’s not much we can do if that’s the case. I have local colleagues at Professional Organizers of New Mexico (PONM) who specialize in working with hoarders, and I gladly refer clients to them who need their expertise.
3. Here are some other helpful resources:
Hoarding Cleanup National Resources (clickable map of USA)
Children of Hoarders (support group)
Where Do You Fall On The Hoarding Scale? (article by Jay MacDonald)
Despite my not normally working with hoarders, in December 2011 I found myself agreeing to lead a team of organizers during a local (Albuquerque, NM) shoot of an episode of A&E Hoarders. Although it was an experience to remember, keep in mind that as volunteers we had minimal direct interaction with the client and the client’s family. In addition to coordinating the volunteer team, I assembled a lot of boxes, did a lot of sorting, took a lot of photos, helped stage the kitchen after purging and cleaning, and did my best to stay warm. There was no heat inside or out and, as the episode’s expert organizer Geralin Thomas found out, Albuquerque is in the high desert (colder), not the low desert (warmer)! Click here to view our behind-the-scenes volunteer photo album.
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