Things That Don’t Spark Joy, But You’d Better Keep Anyway

Keep or toss?

Keep or toss?

What do a toilet plunger and old tax returns have in common? They’re both things that don’t exactly spark joy, but you’d better keep anyway.

If you’ve heard of Marie Kondo, the Japanese bestselling author, you will probably recall her #1 criterion for keeping things: Does it spark joy?

I think this is a lovely question to ask when purging things like clothing, books and décor. Not so much, though, when it comes to many of the other items we use every day.

I asked my NAPO organizing colleagues what they thought we should keep even if it does not particularly spark joy. Their suggestions fell into four main categories. These are just examples, not an exhaustive list. Disclaimer: The basic rules of organizing still apply! Don’t keep things just because you paid good money for them or you might need them someday and can’t decide what’s worth worrying about. And don’t let your containers overflow!

  1. Everyday Tools & Supplies — medicine and medical equipment and supplies, toiletries, grooming items, batteries and light bulbs, office supplies, pet supplies, kitchen ware, underwear, trash bags, eyeglasses, toolbox, auto supplies, cleaning supplies, exercise equipment
  2. Emergency Tools & Supplies — first aid kit, toilet plunger, jumper cables, emergency preparedness kit
  3. Seasonal Items — holiday decorations, ice scraper, snow shovel, lawnmower, gardening tools, camping gear
  4. CYA/Legal (ask your accountant or attorney how long YOU need to keep yours) — divorce papers, will, medical paperwork, mortgage papers, tax returns, vital records (birth, marriage, death), social security card, business receipts, insurance papers

A new criteria?

I say (and to be fair, I’ve heard Ms. Kondo does too, finally, in her second book) that it’s OK to keep something if it serves you well and sparks gratitude when it comes in handy. No need for downright joy all the time. This is also how I justify keeping certain tasks on my to-do list, and why I love chores. Not everything is joyful, or fun. But it had better be worthwhile if I’m keeping it!

But wait – what if some of these utilitarian items could, indeed, spark joy?

Clearly not everyone feels the same way about every item. Divorce papers, for example can represent heartache for one person, or freedom and relief – even joy – for another. And some items spark joy only when actually being used to save the day, such as the toilet plunger, or only a few times a year, such as holiday decorations.

But sometimes we keep things that are barely serviceable or ugly. Why? What is the point of keeping a first aid kit that is not well stocked? Or a shovel whose handle keeps coming off? I, for one, am very particular about my trash bags. I cannot stand drawstrings, or flap-ties, or twist ties. Ugh! Give me handle ties and I’m a happy — joyful? — girl!

Think about the things you use or wear every day: A pen. A mug. A bra. A cutting board. I say the more often we use, or wear, or look at something, the better candidate it is for upgrading. Buy the best. Forget the rest. I recently upgraded my eyeglasses to the point where I can honestly say they spark joy! Come to think of it, it might be time to go buy some new dishtowels. I use them daily and they’re getting ratty.

What are you keeping that does not spark joy, and why?

Are you grateful for it, at least? Does it need to be upgraded?

Please share with us in the comments below!

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  1. Over the years, I have gotten rid of many things that didn’t bring me good memories when I looked at it. But, the albums have been my last go through. I recently got rid of 1 entire album of photos that just didn’t bring me happy memories. It makes me want to do more. I think I am going to take digital photos of the physical pictures and get rid of the physical photo. It will be a process but then I can make a home movie (which is my love hobby). =)

    • Digitizing your photos (the ones you love) is a great idea, especially if you want to make a movie out of them! Google “using camera to scan photos” for tips on how to decide between using your camera or a scanner. And then, make sure you back them up!

  2. My telephone does not spark joy, because most of the calls I get are from telemarketers, scammers, and fundraisers. Most clients, friends and family contact me by email, text or social media. But I have to have a phone! I’m thinking of scrapping my landline so I only have one phone instead of two – at least on my iPhone I can easily block callers, and if the caller is in my address book, their name will come up on the display even if they wouldn’t on my regular phone.

    • I hear ya, Janet! Although… I have had great success lately with something you might want to try before ditching your landline: Nomorobo.com. And, as a former telephone company employee, I feel obligated to point out that a true landline (connected to a central office, which has back-up generators) can be useful during a power outage and provide more a accurate location to emergency services than a cell phone can. To know for sure, take an old fashioned corded phone and plug it into a phone jack in your wall and see if you get dial tone or not. I currently do not have true landline service, but my home phone acts as a business phone. (Only a handful of people have my cell number and they know I usually have the ringer off and they’ll have to leave a message.)

  3. It is interesting the things we think we need to keep. As a minimalist, I have never owned a toilet plunger and have very few holiday decorations. I will say that if there is something that you need to keep that doesn’t spark joy, find the version that is just right for you and you will at least experience contentment.

  4. I was interested to see what we all came up with. I thought it was funny that plunger kept coming up again and again. I agree that to have the tool you need can be a positive moment, even if not joyful.

    • I couldn’t not include it. BUT….my own plunger doesn’t seem to work. Something about the configuration of the plunger and my particular toilet. So I should probably ditch it! (Maybe I need plunger lessons?) 🙂

  5. I loved this hazel! But then again I love your writing. I did a post once asking the question does your stuff matter?” No matter where it is useful, special, significant or fundamental, it just had to matter. But I truly like how you discuss the difference!

    • Thanks, Leslie! Some things matter more than others, but yeah, the things that don’t matter are prime candidates for purging!

  6. So I recently attended one of those home parties for cleaning supplies. As you often feel obligated to order something, I purchased a tub of cleaning paste. Who knew it would spark a bit of joy?! My stainless steel appliances never looked so good, it’s safer for my son as it’s non toxic and I feel like I’m doing Mother Nature a favor as its made with all natural ingredients. A joyful win all around!

    • Great example of a utilitarian item sparking joy! It’s kind of like gratitude — the more we look for it, the more we find it. Yes? Thanks, Sarah.

  7. This is so funny and so true – of course, not everything we own is going to spark joy. There are many things we need to keep that we do not love. Someone said there can be certain areas like clothing, home furnishings, etc. where we would like to think about “does this item spark joy” or “do I love this”?

    • Hi Kim! Yes, I said in my post that, “I think this is a lovely question to ask when purging things like clothing, books and décor.”

  8. You are right Hazel most of the things we use everyday don’t spark joy but serve a purpose. I must admit though I got a new cast iron enamel coated pot for Christmas and it does bring joy every time I use it, and it has a great purpose,

    • I think it’s something we can strive for, or at least feel lucky about sometimes, that everyday utilitarian items CAN spark joy too.

    • I’m no clown, or comedian, but my clients are often stressed out (which is why they called) and I always promise them, “You’ll see. It will be fun!”

  9. I’d say that if your holiday decorations don’t spark joy, get rid of them! What is the point of decorating your house with something you don’t really love?

    • Hi Jasmin, I agree with your statement. But… that’s not what the people who offered up holiday decorations as an example meant. They meant that they only spark joy when being used, and do not spark joy (for them) when not being used, which is most of the year. There may have been a better way for me to say it, but, to be fair, I did say, “…some items spark joy only when actually being used to save the day, such as the toilet plunger, or only a few times a year, such as holiday decorations.” I do think that even if the category of holiday decorations does spark joy, there are almost always items in the category which do not, which are definitely candidates for purging!

  10. So, my Christmas tree (which is actually a branch hanging from the ceiling) is only just coming down this weekend. I am only inspired to put up the Christmas branch and use my ornaments every couple of years. But when I do I feel so joyful that I, well, might only be taking it down in April. I’m taking it down now because it has ceased to take my breath away every time I look at it. But in two years it will do it again. So I’m happy to keep those three boxes that only seldom come out.

    • I do think that things we do routinely can become drudgery even if they were initially joyful. Nothing wrong with rotating decorations or taking a year off once in awhile!

  11. I love this post! It made me chuckle. =)

    And, I agree! Not everything is going to make you feel warm and fuzzy 365 days a year. If I come across one of those items (that hasn’t already been mentioned), I’ll have to come back and share.

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